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Thursday, October 15, 2015

Pregnancy is the worst experience of my life!

OK, before you judge me... no, it wasn't me who said that (title), it was the very famous Kim Kardashian. :) And this has divided many people online, some sided with her, and some don't. I just feel like I need to say something about this too. This is what she said on her website:
“I’m gonna keep it real: For me, pregnancy is the worst experience of my life! LOL, I don’t enjoy one moment of it and I don’t understand people who enjoy it. My mom [Kris Jenner] and Kourtney [Kardashian] clearly did! More power to them, but I just don’t relate! (Kim Kardashian West) 

Many people call her ungrateful for saying this and many agree with her too. Her comment took me back to the time I was pregnant with Nate. And the challenges that I experienced while he was inside me for 40 weeks.
Me before going to the hospital for delivery. 
1. Not morning Sickness. Nope, it's definitely not morning sickness, but evening sickness! Since I work at night, I'd sometimes feel the need to just go to the bathroom and throw up. Sometimes, I feel like I have gastritis and just feel so sick sometimes. And nope, sometimes it's not evening sickness either, it happens at any time of the day, just any time my tummy feels like releasing something!

2. Swollen Feet. Oh I sure have those when I was on my third trimester! Good thing if I lay my feet up, it would somehow subside but yes, I didn't like it. Some of my sandals won't fit anymore!!

3. Stretch Marks. Oh yeah! And it's a living trophy for me because I still have a lot of those right now! haha! Nope, the VCO didn't work, LOL. When I look at it, I still feel sad, I miss my soft & smooth tummy before I got pregnant but it's a price that I get. When I look at it, I'd always remember Nate.

4. Can't lie down properly. Haha, I'm sure many are with me on this too. Back pains, leg pains, it seems like you have all the pain in the world! If you lie down with your back, minsan ang hirap huminga! If you lie sideways, nakakangalay katagalan. Plus you need lots and lots of pillows!

5. Catching my breath. When your tummy is really huge already and all the pressure goes to your feet, even walking 10 steps can be veeeery challenging!!!

Not to mention the frequent urination, us getting fatter and fatter everyday, increase in weight, and some foods you couldn't enjoy eating (like the raw foods, inihaw, kinilaw! ugh!), and on top of that, the ring of fire we experience during labor and delivery!

So yes, I didn't have an amazing pregnancy either! I don't think I even have the pregnancy glow while I was pregnant! haha! How can I be when I couldn't sleep well! lol! So what's the point of me writing this? haha. I just have to say I to contradict to this:

"...pregnancy is the worst experience of my life!"

No, not at all! I can say that pregnancy was very challenging but NO, it cannot be the worst experience of my life. Here's a few reasons why I think it's not (or cannot or shouldn't be):

1. Remember the VIP treatment? Well, Kim K is Kim K so maybe she could not tell the difference because she always gets a VIP treatment. But, yes, you get to be on priority lane, most people (not all anymore nowadays) would offer their seats for you, and a lot more! Here in the PH, we always give priority to pregnant women (in counters, groceries, almost everywhere, and I experienced it first-hand, how you get those VIP treatments. And I'm sure you agree with me that it was awesome! haha!

2. Remember the first times? The first positive pregnancy test result, the first ultrasound, the first kick, your partner's first kiss on your tummy, and there's a whole lot more! That's more than enough for me to grateful for.

3. The joys. There are so many unspeakable joys during pregnancy. I'm sure it's not just me. We'd feel so amazed thinking that there's a creature living inside us. We are giving life, and that they are literally from us. How cool is that? When I was pregnant, I watched this video about the journey of life from conception to birth and to see your unborn baby develop over time is just beyond wonderful! Got me teary eyed!

There's still so many things to mention when we think about the good side of pregnancy. But if we focus on the negative side - which I think were also there so we'd value life and love of babies even more, we'd really not be able to appreciate the positive sides of pregnancy.

Some people say that Kim's being very ungrateful with her statement (they could be overreacting but I can understand why some say so). Few years back, Kim was with fertility doctors, wanting to eagerly get pregnant (and she had North), the next thing we know, she was saying pregnancy is her worst experience.

While she was doing this, many couples are doing their very best just to be able to get pregnant. And may feel a bit insulted about this. Some wasted thousands of dollars for fertility treatments and many will trade all the negative experience you'll have just to get pregnant. And many are still struggling with infertility, no matter how rich they are.

"While we're complaining about something that we have, many are wishing they have it". 

No, I just can't say pregnancy is the worst experience in my life (sorry, Kim, have to disagree with you!). I can say it's very tough but it's certainly not the worst. It's bittersweet!

In fairness to Kim, she said at the end though:
“But I will say, as much as I really hate the whole feeling of being pregnant, I enjoy the challenge of getting my body back after it’s all over. I feel so accomplished when I’m back to where I want to be. Really, it is all SO worth it when you have your precious baby in the end! So for all my complaining, it’s 100 percent worth it and more!!!"

But still I don't agree with her first statements (Sorry again, Kim. LOL!). I don't think of pregnancy as my worst experience, I think of it as my greatest achievement. I am proud to be able to get through all the challenges of pregnancy and harvest the fruit of it when I saw Nate for the very first time. And I will be happy to experience all of it again at the right time, when Dane and I are ready for an addition to the family.

What can you say about Kim's comment? I'd like to hear from you. :)

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24 comments:

  1. Pregnancy is not the worst. It's not that bad. Well, it depends on what you prioritize or what you value. IF you want a pretty, sexy body, then you might really have some problems with pregnancy. If you value the moment of carrying a baby inside, then, you'll enjoy the pregnancy journey.

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    1. I can't agree with you more on that! Thanks for reading!

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  2. For some reason I love how Kim K expressed both the not-so-good and the good side of pregnancy. And just like how you enumerated the pros and cons, I can totally relate and agree esp swollen feet and can't lie down properly! And although I still have about 2 months to wait for my baby, I already know that this will all be worth it once baby's out and with us. : )

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    1. God bless you!!! I hope you have a safe delivery. You can do it!

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  3. Believe it or not, I can also relate to what pregnancy experience. Not that I went pregnancy too (LOL) but I can see how Mommy went on her pregnancy with Matthew.
    Buti na lang hindi maselan si Mommy na nagbuntis. No morning sickness. Not into much cravings except suha and sweet corn.

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  4. My pregnancy was not a smooth ride, it was really challenging. I have morning sickness, I vomit after eating a meal, I was on bedrest till 5 months and I had PUPPP on my 7 months until 2 months after I gave birth. My body is 90% covered with PUPPP and I can't sleep because it is really itchy. I spent my time going to OB and Derma for my check-up. It was a difficult pregnancy but I am happy that God gave me a son.

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    1. Yes, nothing more fulfilling than seeing your child for the first time!

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  5. I'm 6 months preggo now and I can attest to the difficulty of pregnancy. Sometimes I wonder how I was able to drag myself to work during my first trimester, when I felt like crap. But there are worse things in life. I actually really like being pregnant. My husband is nicer, for one, haha, and it amazes me that my body is able to carry a life.

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    1. I liked being pregnant for the same reason, I felt extra special! hahaha!

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  6. I watch Keeping Up with Kardashian and I enjoy the show. I see Kim K family grew and the changes through their life especially when she got pregnant. Every pregnancy is different and I'm sure its all changes when the baby arrived. It just hard when you hit the last part when you can't sleep well and belly getting heavy. Its all worth it and blessed.
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  7. It's not fun because there are so many adjustments. Our kids just make pregnancy worth it. I don't hate Kim Kardashian for saying that, it's understandable.

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    1. I don't hate her either, I just don't agree with her. :)

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  8. I hope when it's my time, I would enjoy the experience, unlike Kim K who just can't appreciate that stage in life. I pity her and I don't know why. :(

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    1. Just look into the bright side sis!!! I'm sure you'll do good! :)

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  9. some ladies really didn't enjoyed the feeling of being pregnant. but i agree with Elizabeth that everything is still worth it once you see your beautiful and healthy baby.

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    1. Until I saw my child for the first time, I did not understand how amazing it felt! Ung tears of joy when you see your baby-so true! :D

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  10. noong pinanganak ng ex ko yung panganay ko 5 hospital pinuntahan namin yung 4 tinang gihan siya... bago na nganak

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  11. I like being pregnant but I didn'tt like that last two weeks because it was the hardest part of pregnancy for me.

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    1. I'm glad to see you with your cutie patootie. :D

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  12. I had an easy pregnancy and I am loving every moment of it :-)

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